Jeonsa: The Dragon Slayer
Once upon a time, in the ancient land of Korea, there lived a warrior named Jeonsa. He was a great martial artist, trained in the art of Tang Soo Do, and he lived by the codes and tenets of his discipline:
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Jeonsa: The Dragon Slayer
Once upon a time, in the ancient land of Korea, there lived a warrior named Jeonsa. He was a great martial artist, trained in the art of Tang Soo Do, and he lived by the codes and tenets of his discipline:
In today's busy world, families are often scattered in various activities and have little quality time together. However, shared interests and activities are crucial for strong family bonding. Martial arts provide an excellent opportunity for families to train together, offering many physical, mental, and social benefits. When parents, siblings, and children join a martial arts school together, here are some of the valuable outcomes they can expect:
Improved Family Relationships
Simply training side-by-side 2-3 times per week provides families with regular bonding time.Whether paired up for sparring, exercises, or forms practice, family members connect through shared effort and encouragement. Kids also get to see their parents in a new light as disciplined martial artists. Through small moments of mentorship on the training floor, family bonds grow stronger.
Role Modeling
Parents have the chance to lead by example consistently in a martial arts setting. Children witness their mom or dad's perseverance, respect for the process, and resilience after setbacks.You can teach the merits of hard work, discipline, and sportsmanship throughout classes. Leading with these actions speaks volumes more than just telling kids what to do.
Cooperation and Teamwork
Martial arts training naturally brings out cooperation amongst classmates. For families, this teamwork mentality gets reinforced exponentially. Kids learn to work constructively with their siblings, while parents unite with their children to reach shared objectives. Families develop valuable team habits that transfer to other aspects of life.
Physical Activity and Discipline
Family martial arts training is a fun way to get active together and build healthier lifestyles. It also teaches families self-discipline that influences their approach to health and fitness overall. By holding one another accountable, family members can improve their strength, endurance, flexibility, and coordination in a motivated environment.
Self-Confidence and Achievement
Martial arts development is measured through incremental progress and belt promotions. Families get to celebrate these milestones together, creating a sense of pride. Both children and parents can gain greater confidence by mastering curriculum, learning self-defense, and meeting martial arts challenges.
Self-Defense Skills
Unfortunately, the world we live in means families must consider self-protection. Martial arts equip family members of all ages with practical self-defense skills and awareness. Parents gain peace of mind knowing their children have the tools to avoid unsafe situations. Family training enables continuous development of lifesaving defensive tactics.
Stress Relief and Focus
Through powerful meditation, movement, and mental exercises, martial arts allow busy family members to take a mental break. The arts provide centering and focus that relieves life's everyday stressors. Parents model effective stress relief for children. And the arts curb anxiety plus pediatric challenges like ADHD, anxiety, and depression.
Lifelong Activity for All Ages
A significant benefit of family martial arts training is establishing a fun lifelong activity. People can continue benefiting from arts practice well into old age. Young children who begin martial arts may continue decades later as adults - and share the arts with their own kids! Starting as a family creates generational bonds.
Bringing families together for martial arts training benefits all involved tremendously. The physical, mental, and social development, combined with cherished memories, make martial arts an ideal family activity. The lessons learned on the training floor enrich families for a lifetime.
The Benefits of Martial Arts Training Across Age Groups
Martial arts provide numerous benefits for physical, emotional, social, and spiritual development across all age groups. However, the specific benefits vary depending on the age and developmental stage of the practitioner. This paper examines the key benefits of martial arts for different age groups.
Ages 5-6
For young children ages 5-6, martial arts help develop basic motor skills, coordination, balance, and flexibility. The emphasis is on fun, active play. Martial arts instill discipline and focus and provide an outlet for boundless energy. Socially, it allows children to learn respect, manners, and how to follow instructions. Martial arts provide a supportive environment for children to build confidence and self-esteem.
Ages 7-9
In this age range, martial arts improve physical conditioning, strength, reflexes, and agility. Classes focus on developing better technique, forms, and stances. Martial arts foster mental focus, discipline, and persistence. Socially, children learn teamwork and cooperation. They also gain important life skills such as goal-setting, leadership, and responsibility. Martial arts provide a constructive activity that boosts confidence and a sense of achievement.
Ages 10-14
During these pre-teen and early teen years, martial arts enhance physical fitness, balance, coordination, and cardiovascular health. Training develops quicker reaction times and improved motor skills. Mentally, martial arts require greater focus and perseverance. Students learn complex forms and combinations. Socially, martial arts promote respect, discipline, and leadership. Students may have opportunities to assist with teaching younger children as well. Martial arts provide a positive environment for students to build self-confidence and self-control.
Ages 15-18
In the teen years, martial arts continue to improve strength, endurance, and mental focus. Training develops situational awareness and teaches self-defense skills. Students advance in rank by demonstrating skills and knowledge. Martial arts provide productive physical activity and an outlet for teens to channel their energy in a constructive way. They learn valuable social skills such as discipline, manners, and teamwork. Martial arts training gives teens leadership opportunities and a sense of community and belonging.
Ages 18-34
For adults, martial arts improve fitness, tone muscles, develop better balance and coordination. Sparring helps hone reflexes and mental alertness. Martial arts provide effective self-defense and combat skills. Mentally, training develops greater focus and self-control. Adults gain confidence and learn to handle conflict or threats. Socially, martial arts allow people to meet others with similar interests. Students learn the values of respect, discipline, and perseverance. Martial arts provide a sense of meaning, purpose, and achievement.
Ages 35-50
In mid-life, martial arts help maintain fitness and flexibility, preventing weight gain and muscle loss. Training develops balance and coordination, reducing the risk of falls and injuries. Martial arts keep the mind sharp and focused. Students advance in rank by demonstrating deep knowledge and proficiency. Socially, martial arts allow people to connect with others who share similar values and interests. Martial arts provide stress relief and a healthy outlet for both physical and mental challenges. Students gain a sense of accomplishment and increased confidence.
Ages 50+
For older adults, martial arts improve mobility, flexibility, and balance. Training helps prevent injuries from falls and maintains strength and reflexes. Martial arts keep the mind engaged and active. Socially, classes provide comradery and friendships. Martial arts give a sense of meaning, purpose and belonging. Students continue advancing in knowledge and rank. Adaptive martial arts programs can accommodate students with mobility, health or other limitations. Overall, martial arts are an excellent low-impact activity that provides both physical and mental benefits for older adults.
In summary, martial arts provide developmentally appropriate benefits across all age groups - improving physical abilities, mental focus, social skills, confidence, discipline, leadership, and a sense of meaning and achievement. With lifelong training, martial arts can support growth and learning across the entire lifespan.
Consistency
Your child needs to know that no matter what happens, you
are always going to be a consistent parent.
Maintaining consistency means that you are going to be patient, connected,
adaptable, and edutaining with your child all the time so your child knows what
to expect from you and you know what to expect from them. Here are some
pointers on parental consistency:
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Do not sway in how you react to your child day
to day, even if your child makes mistakes or has a temper tantrum. Instead, strive for a consistent approach in
your parenting and especially in how you react to and resolve these types of situations.
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Be Predictable.
An inconsistent parent may yell at their child one day for a particular
behavior, but the next day react with patience and use a similar situation as a
teaching moment. This only creates
confusion for your child’s expectations.
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Don’t let your moods interfere. My mother was
very inconsistent because of her moods.
If I wanted to ask her a question, I knew not to ask when she was on the
couch with a migraine, but when she was busy baking, I knew that it was a good
time to ask. I had to assess her mood
before approaching her because she was very inconsistent in her moods and her parenting.
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Let your child know that they can rely on you. By being consistent, they will always know
what to expect from you and that they can rely on you to help, teach, and
motivate them.
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Don’t be a Lawnmower Parent. This
is the type of parent who cuts a
path or “lawn” for their child by finishing everything for them such as
finishing their child’s homework for them or resolving all their mistakes for
them. In the end, their child never learns how to resolve their own issues or
mistakes. While this is a “consistent”
approach, it is not a healthy one. A
better consistent approach is to let your child know that you will always strive
to be connected, fair, attentive, patient and adaptable with them.
When you think about consistency, ask yourself how you typically
react in different situations with your child.
Do you lose it when you’re in a bad mood, or do you keep your cool? Be
as consistent and reliable as possible with your child as you can, regardless
of your mood, and they will learn to be consistent and reliable with you, too.