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The Whole-Brain Child: Nurturing Emotional Intelligence

 The Whole-Brain Child: Nurturing Emotional Intelligence

Welcome to the fourth installment of our six-part series on "The Whole-Brain Child" strategies. In this post, we'll delve into nurturing emotional intelligence in children. We'll focus on two key strategies: "Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By" and "SIFT: Sensations, Images, Feelings, and Thoughts".

Strategy 7: Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By

This strategy helps children understand that emotions are temporary states, not permanent conditions. Here's how to implement this approach:

  1. Introduce the Concept: Explain to your child that emotions are like clouds in the sky - they come and go.
  2. Acknowledge the Emotion: When your child is experiencing a strong emotion, start by acknowledging it. "I can see you're really angry right now."
  3. Remind Them of Impermanence: Gently remind your child that this feeling won't last forever. "This angry feeling is like a storm cloud. It might feel big and dark now, but it will pass."
  4. Encourage Observation: Help your child learn to observe their emotions without being overwhelmed by them. "Let's watch this angry feeling together and see how it changes."
  5. Celebrate Passing Emotions: When the intense emotion has passed, point it out. "Look, the anger cloud has moved on. How do you feel now?"

This strategy helps children develop emotional resilience and prevents them from feeling defined by their temporary emotional states.

Strategy 8: SIFT: Sensations, Images, Feelings, and Thoughts

The SIFT strategy helps children become more aware of their inner experiences. Here's how to use this approach:

  1. Sensations: Encourage your child to notice physical sensations in their body. "What do you feel in your body right now? Is your heart beating fast? Are your muscles tight?"
  2. Images: Ask about any mental images that might be associated with their current state. "When you think about this situation, what pictures come to your mind?"
  3. Feelings: Help your child identify and name their emotions. "What emotions are you experiencing? Joy? Frustration? Excitement?"
  4. Thoughts: Explore the thoughts running through your child's mind. "What are you telling yourself about this situation?"

Implementing the SIFT strategy:

  • Practice regularly, not just during times of stress.
  • Make it a game. For example, you could play "SIFT Detective" where you both try to SIFT through your experiences.
  • Model the process by SIFTing through your own experiences out loud.

This strategy helps children develop self-awareness and emotional vocabulary, key components of emotional intelligence.

Putting it all together:

  • Use "Let the Clouds of Emotion Roll By" to help your child understand the temporary nature of emotions.
  • Use SIFT to help them become more aware of their inner experiences.
  • Combine these strategies to help your child navigate their emotional world more effectively.

Remember, developing emotional intelligence is a gradual process. Be patient with your child (and yourself!) as you practice these strategies.

In our next post, we'll explore strategies for developing mindfulness and self-awareness in children. Stay tuned!

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