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Why Your Child Shouldn’t Skip Martial Arts Classes  During the Holidays As the holiday season approaches, many parents find themselves conflicted over a familiar dilemma. The bustling holiday schedule filled with family gatherings, travel, shopping, baking, and parties often leads parents to consider temporarily pulling their kids out of extracurricular activities, including martial arts classes.  While this impulse is completely understandable given the busyness and chaos that can accompany the holidays, I encourage you as a child development expert to pause and reconsider before making that decision when it comes to your child’s martial arts classes.  Here are several compelling reasons why consistency with martial arts during the holidays can provide important benefits for your child's development and wellbeing: First and foremost, consistency is absolutely key when it comes to mastery in martial arts. By attending classes regularly, your child reinforces the physical ...

The Power of Connection: Nurturing Your Child's Emotional Wellbeing In our previous post, we talked about the importance of building a strong connection with your child through daily interactions and boosting their neurotransmitters. A deep parent-child connection not only leads to better communication and less stressful moments, but it also nurtures your child's emotional health. Here are some additional tips for creating an environment where your child feels secure and empowered: Validate Their Feelings Children often have big emotions that they don't know how to handle. When your child expresses difficult feelings like anger, sadness, or fear, resist the urge to downplay or dismiss them. Instead, name the feeling and empathize. Say things like "I see that made you really angry. I understand, that would make me upset too." This models emotional intelligence. Practice Active Listening When your child wants to tell you something, stop what you're doing and lis...

                                                                 Connection One of the most important things that you can do as a parent is establish a connection with your child.   In fact, children need connection more than anything else.   Here are a few ways that you can begin to build a great connection with your child: Daily Interactions: 1.       Make one-on-one connections with your child.   Instead of asking a question from across the room, take an extra 15 seconds to walk to your child, get down on their level, maybe tap their shoulder or touch their arm, and ask the question.   Chances are they will engage right away (instead of ignoring you) and answer you because you have made that personal connection.     2.       Connect ...

Jeonsa: The Dragon Slayer   Once upon a time, in the ancient land of Korea, there lived a warrior named Jeonsa. He was a great martial artist, trained in the art of Tang Soo Do, and he lived by the codes and tenets of his discipline: Courtesy: Jeonsa was always respectful to others, even to his enemies. Integrity: He was always honest and truthful, even when it was difficult. Perseverance: He never gave up, even when faced with great adversity. Self-control: He was always in control of his emotions, even in the heat of battle. Indomitable Spirit: He never backed down from a challenge, and he always fought for what he believed in. One day, Jeonsa heard about a dragon that was terrorizing a nearby village. The dragon was huge and fearsome, and it had devoured many people and livestock. Jeonsa knew that he had to help the villagers, so he set out to slay the dragon. When Jeonsa arrived at the village, he saw that it was in ruins. The villagers were huddled together in fear, and they b...

The Benefits of Families Training in Martial Arts Together In today's busy world, families are often scattered in various activities and have little quality time together. However, shared interests and activities are crucial for strong family bonding. Martial arts provide an excellent opportunity for families to train together, offering many physical, mental, and social benefits. When parents, siblings, and children join a martial arts school together, here are some of the valuable outcomes they can expect: Improved Family Relationships Simply training side-by-side 2-3 times per week provides families with regular bonding time.Whether paired up for sparring, exercises, or forms practice, family members connect through shared effort and encouragement. Kids also get to see their parents in a new light as disciplined martial artists. Through small moments of mentorship on the training floor, family bonds grow stronger. Role Modeling Parents have the chance to lead by example consisten...

The Benefits of Martial Arts Training Across Age Groups Martial arts provide numerous benefits for physical, emotional, social, and spiritual development across all age groups. However, the specific benefits vary depending on the age and developmental stage of the practitioner. This paper examines the key benefits of martial arts for different age groups. Ages 5-6 For young children ages 5-6, martial arts help develop basic motor skills, coordination, balance, and flexibility. The emphasis is on fun, active play. Martial arts instill discipline and focus and provide an outlet for boundless energy. Socially, it allows children to learn respect, manners, and how to follow instructions. Martial arts provide a supportive environment for children to build confidence and self-esteem.  Ages 7-9  In this age range, martial arts improve physical conditioning, strength, reflexes, and agility. Classes focus on developing better technique, forms, and stances. Martial arts foster mental fo...

  Consistency Your child needs to know that no matter what happens, you are always going to be a consistent parent.   Maintaining consistency means that you are going to be patient, connected, adaptable, and edutaining with your child all the time so your child knows what to expect from you and you know what to expect from them. Here are some pointers on parental consistency:    ·          Do not sway in how you react to your child day to day, even if your child makes mistakes or has a temper tantrum.   Instead, strive for a consistent approach in your parenting and especially in how you react to and resolve these types of situations.           ·          Be Predictable.   An inconsistent parent may yell at their child one day for a particular behavior, but the next day react with patience and use a similar situation as a teaching moment. ...