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The Whole-Brain Child: The Power of Movement and Memory

 The Whole-Brain Child: The Power of Movement and Memory

Welcome to the third part of our six-part series on "The Whole-Brain Child" strategies. In this post, we'll explore how movement and memory play crucial roles in a child's development and emotional regulation. We'll focus on two key strategies: "Move It or Lose It" and "Use the Remote of the Mind".

Strategy 5: Move It or Lose It

The "Move It or Lose It" strategy emphasizes the importance of physical movement in shifting a child's emotional state. Here's how you can implement this approach:

  1. Recognize the Need for Movement: When your child is stuck in a negative emotional state, consider that physical movement might help.
  2. Encourage Physical Activity: Suggest activities like jumping jacks, dancing, or a quick walk around the block.
  3. Make it Fun: Turn the movement into a game. For example, "Let's see who can hop on one foot the longest!"
  4. Use Movement Preventatively: Incorporate regular physical activity into your daily routine to help maintain emotional balance.
  5. Model the Behavior: Show your child how you use movement to manage your own emotions. "I'm feeling frustrated, so I'm going to take a quick walk to clear my head."

Remember, the goal is not to distract from emotions, but to help shift the body's state, which can in turn shift the emotional state. This strategy can be particularly effective for children who struggle with sitting still or those who tend to get "stuck" in negative emotions.

Strategy 6: Use the Remote of the Mind

The "Use the Remote of the Mind" strategy involves helping your child revisit and reframe memories to integrate experiences more fully. Here's how to put this into practice:

  1. Pause: When discussing a past event, especially a challenging one, imagine using a remote control to pause the memory.
  2. Rewind: Go back to the beginning of the event or to key moments.
  3. Fast Forward: Move quickly through less important parts.
  4. Slow Motion: Slow down at crucial points to examine details and emotions more closely.
  5. Narrate: As you go through the memory, help your child narrate what happened, focusing on thoughts and feelings.
  6. Reframe: If necessary, help your child see the event from different perspectives or focus on positive aspects they might have overlooked.

This strategy can be particularly helpful for processing difficult experiences or for savoring positive ones. It teaches children that they have some control over how they remember and interpret events in their lives.

Implementing these strategies:

  • For "Move It or Lose It", create a list of fun physical activities your family enjoys. Keep it handy for when emotions run high.
  • For "Use the Remote of the Mind", practice with positive memories first. This can make the technique more comfortable when applied to challenging experiences.

Remember, the key is consistency and patience. These strategies may feel awkward at first, but with practice, they can become valuable tools for emotional regulation and memory integration.

In our next post, we'll explore strategies for nurturing emotional intelligence in children. Stay tuned!

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