Movement as Medicine: Why Stillness Is the New Smoking
(Movement Medicine, Part 1 – Written for Warrior Parents)
If you’re reading this, there’s a good chance your child already moves more than most: they kick, block, shout kihap, and race around the dojo floor with that martial‑arts glow only other parents truly recognize.
So it can be confusing when you also hear messages like:
- “Kids today aren’t moving enough.”
- “Sitting is the new smoking.”
- “We have an epidemic of sedentary children.”
You might find yourself thinking:
“But my kid does martial arts two or three times a week. Isn’t that enough?”
In this first part of Movement Medicine: A Martial Artist’s Guide to Lifelong Health, I want to zoom out and help you see your child’s training not as “just an activity,” but as a piece of something much bigger and more powerful:
Movement as daily medicine for their body, brain, and emotional world.
My hope is that you’ll finish this article with three things:
- A clearer understanding of why frequent movement is so important for your child’s physical, emotional, and intellectual development.
- A new mental model: thinking of movement in “doses,” like medicine.
- Simple, realistic ideas to sprinkle more movement into your child’s everyday life—without turning your home into a boot camp.
The Young Warrior’s Hidden Mismatch
Let’s start with a simple picture.
Imagine two lives:
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Life A – A Traditional Young Warrior:
Walking long distances. Carrying things. Climbing. Playing outdoors. Learning skills with their body—farming, hunting, building, training with simple weapons. Resting, yes, but between long periods of low‑level, varied movement. -
Life B – A Modern Young Warrior:
Wakes up, sits at breakfast. Sits in the car or bus. Sits at a desk most of the day. Comes home, sits with homework or screens. A few times a week, bursts of intense movement in activities like martial arts… then back to sitting.
Even if your child trains with us faithfully, their overall day probably looks much closer to Life B than Life A.
This is what I mean by a “mismatch.”
Their growing body and brain were designed for Life A—but are living in Life B.
Martial arts classes help tremendously, but they are often an island of movement in an ocean of stillness. Over time, that mismatch can show up as:
- Sluggishness or “low energy”
- Difficulty concentrating
- Poor posture, tight hips, or rounded shoulders
- Emotional “bottling up” that explodes later
- Trouble falling asleep or staying asleep
- A sense of “restlessness” that gets labeled as misbehavior
The good news: you don’t need to move to a farm or take away every screen to make a meaningful difference.
You just need to start thinking of movement as medicine—something we dose throughout the day.
Movement Is Not Just Exercise (Why Words Matter)
When adults hear “movement,” we often translate it into “exercise”:
- Going to the gym
- Going for a run
- “Working out”
Kids don’t think this way. For them, movement is:
- Play
- Curiosity
- Exploration
- A way to express big feelings they can’t put into words yet
If we think only in terms of formal “exercise,” we miss what a child’s nervous system is really asking for: frequent, varied, low‑pressure movement.
Your child’s body doesn’t know the word “exercise.”
It only knows:
- “I am moving.”
- “I am not moving.”
And that simple distinction changes everything in their:
- Physical health: heart, lungs, muscles, joints, coordination
- Emotional health: how they handle frustration, anxiety, and anger
- Cognitive health: focus, impulse control, memory, and learning
As parents, our invitation is not to become personal trainers, but to become architects of a movement‑friendly day.
How Movement Acts Like Medicine for Your Child
Let’s look at a few “prescriptions” movement quietly fills in your child’s development—without a pharmacy.
1. Movement for the Body: Strong, Coordinated, Resilient
Every time your child runs, jumps, crawls, kicks, rolls, and balances, their body is:
- Strengthening bones (especially important in growing years).
- Creating healthy joint patterns that will protect them later.
- Building coordination between muscles and the balance centers of the inner ear.
- Learning “how hard is too hard” so they can self‑regulate their effort.
Consistent movement:
- Reduces the risk of obesity and early metabolic issues.
- Supports healthy posture and alignment.
- Makes them less accident‑prone because their body “knows where it is in space” (proprioception).
You’ll see it on the mat: the child who moves often outside of class develops smoother techniques, more stability in stances, and better balance during kicks—not because they simply try harder, but because their entire nervous system has more practice coordinating the body.
2. Movement for the Brain: Focus, Learning, and Self‑Control
Movement is not just physical; it is deeply neurological.
When your child moves:
- Blood flow increases to the brain, delivering oxygen and nutrients.
- Key brain chemicals that support mood and attention—like dopamine, serotonin, and norepinephrine—are released.
- Neural networks responsible for planning, sequencing, and impulse control are exercised.
In plain terms: moving helps your child think and behave better.
That means:
- Movement before homework can make focusing easier.
- Movement breaks during school can reduce fidgeting and disruptive behavior.
- Movement after a stressful event can help discharge anxiety and “reset” the brain.
This is one reason martial arts is so powerful for kids with attention challenges. Training is not just teaching kicks and blocks; it is literally therapy for their developing brain.
3. Movement for Emotions: Release, Regulation, and Resilience
Think of your child as an energy system.
Every day, they’re taking in:
- Academic stress
- Social confusion
- Frustrations
- Big feelings about friends, siblings, and sometimes… us
If their only outlets are talking (which many kids can’t fully do yet) and screens, that energy builds up. It has to go somewhere, and often it leaks out as:
- Meltdowns
- Defiance
- Shutdowns and withdrawal
- “Random” outbursts over seemingly tiny things
Movement gives their body a non‑verbal release valve.
A child who can sprint, hang from a bar, kick a target, or crawl like a bear is literally letting their nervous system complete a cycle:
- Feel stress.
- Move.
- Discharge energy.
- Return to calm.
Many adults are still trying to learn this cycle. You have a chance to help your child build it into their life while they’re young.
Thinking in “Movement Doses”
Now that we’ve seen why movement matters, let’s make this practical.
A child doesn’t need two hours of daily sports to be healthy. In fact, for many families, that’s not realistic and can add more stress.
Instead, I want you to think in three basic “doses” of movement:
- Micro‑Movement (1–5 minutes)
- Practice Movement (30–90 minutes)
- Restorative Movement (10–20 minutes)
You can imagine your child’s day as a glass of water.
Each time they move, you put in a little “dose.”
By evening, you want that glass to be reasonably full.
1. Micro‑Movement: The Antidote to the Sitting Problem
These are tiny bursts of movement sprinkled throughout the day. They might include:
- Walking up and down the stairs a few extra times.
- Doing 10 jumping jacks between homework pages.
- A 3‑minute “ninja balance challenge” in the living room.
- Crawling races or crab walks during play.
Why they matter:
Micro‑movements interrupt long stretches of sitting, which is where many of the health problems begin. They “wake up” the muscles and brain without needing a full workout.
Parent tip:
Instead of saying, “Stop fidgeting,” try redirecting it:
- “Let’s do a 2‑minute wiggle break. Then we’ll come back to math.”
- “Before you start that show, show me your best 5 kicks on each leg.”
You’re not fighting their energy—you’re guiding it.
2. Practice Movement: The Deep Work
This is where martial arts classes fit.
Practice movement is:
- Skill‑focused
- Structured
- Often coached by an instructor (like in the dojo)
- Longer in duration: usually 30–90 minutes
During this time your child is:
- Learning technique and discipline.
- Building strength, mobility, and coordination.
- Practicing focus, respect, and perseverance.
Parent insight:
When you see your child tired after class, you’re not just seeing “burned calories.” You’re seeing a whole‑body, whole‑brain workout that will pay off in their attention, confidence, and emotional regulation later.
But remember: if this practice is surrounded by nothing but sitting the rest of the day, your child is still living in Life B. We want practice movement plus regular small doses.
3. Restorative Movement: Gentle, Soothing, Repairing
Not all movement should be intense. Restorative movement:
- Helps the body recover.
- Teaches the nervous system how to shift from “fight or flight” into “rest and repair.”
- Feels more like a relaxing walk than a sprint.
Examples:
- A slow family walk after dinner.
- Gentle stretching on the floor while talking about the day.
- Easy, playful yoga or mobility flows.
- Light shadow‑kicking at 30–50% effort, focusing on smoothness.
Why kids need this too:
Many children live in a surprisingly high state of stress—social stress, school pressure, sensory overload. Restorative movement helps them down‑shift in a way that still honors their need to move.
Building a Movement‑Rich Day (Without Becoming a Drill Sergeant)
You might be thinking, “This all sounds good, but my life is already full. How do I add more without losing my mind?”
The key is to attach movement to things you’re already doing.
Here are some realistic ideas broken down by part of the day.
Morning: Setting the Tone
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Movement Check‑In (2–3 minutes)
While your child is brushing teeth or getting dressed, invite a tiny movement game:- “Can you stand on one leg while you brush your teeth?”
- “Show me three of your strongest stances after you put your shoes on.”
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“Walk the Last Bit” When Possible
If school drop‑off allows, park a little farther away and walk together. It doesn’t have to be far—just enough to start the day with blood flowing. -
Micro‑Mobility While You Chat
While you ask about their day ahead, do gentle stretches together:- Arm circles
- Neck rolls
- Toe touches
You’re not just waking up their body; you’re modeling that adults move too.
Afternoon: After School Decompression
For many kids, coming home from school is a danger zone for meltdowns. Their tank is empty, and their body has been still for hours.
Instead of sending them straight to a chair for homework:
- “Shake Out the Day” Routine (5–10 minutes)
- 1 minute of jumping jacks or running in place
- 1 minute of crawling (bear crawl, crab walk, etc.)
- 1 minute of “statue balance” on one foot
- 1 minute of stretching or slow deep breaths in a low horse stance
These few minutes let their nervous system discharge the built‑up energy from school so they can sit more calmly afterward.
- Homework Intervals
Break homework into 10–20 minute chunks with 2–3 minute movement breaks in between:- “When you finish these 5 math problems, we’ll do a ninja challenge.”
- “After you read this page, show me 10 of your best front kicks.”
Movement becomes a reward and a reset, not a punishment.
Evening: From High Gear to Bedtime
Evenings can feel chaotic: classes, activities, dinner, baths, bedtime. One simple goal: use movement to help your child wind down, not up.
- Post‑Class Cool Down (5 minutes)
After martial arts, instead of straight to the car and then couch, try:- A short slow walk around the parking lot or block together.
- Gentle stretching at home while you ask, “What did you learn tonight?”
This tells their body: “Training is done; now we transition to rest.”
- Movement + Connection Ritual
A small shared practice each night:- 30 seconds of deep breathing while sitting back‑to‑back.
- Child lies on their back, gently hugging knees to chest; you count slow breaths.
- Simple yoga pose like “child’s pose” while you quietly talk about one good thing from the day and one challenge.
Here movement is a bridge between their warrior life in the dojo and their inner life at home.
Addressing Common Parent Concerns
You might still have some worries or hesitations. Let’s name a few.
“Won’t more movement make them too tired?”
In most cases, no.
Frequent light movement tends to give kids more steady energy, not less. What drains them is:
- Long periods of stillness followed by sudden intensity.
- Emotional stress with no physical outlet.
- Over‑scheduled days with no time to breathe or play.
Think of movement as adjusting the quality of their energy, not just the quantity.
Yes, after martial arts class your child should be tired—that’s normal and healthy. But frequent, smaller doses across the day will actually help their body handle those classes better.
“My child already does sports. Isn’t that enough?”
Sports help a lot. But remember the mismatch:
- Two or three blocks of intense movement a week cannot fully undo
- Many hours of sitting every day.
The solution is not to add more teams. It’s to sprinkle more movement into the ordinary moments: walking, playing, stretching together, little bursts between tasks.
You don’t need more organized activity.
You need more organic activity.
“What if my child is ‘lazy’ or resistant to moving?”
Often, “lazy” is really:
- Tired
- Overwhelmed
- Unsure
- Feeling disconnected
Start small. Make it playful, not critical. Instead of:
- “You need to get off the couch and exercise,”
Try:
- “Want to show me your three strongest kicks?”
- “Want to race me to the end of the driveway?”
- “Let’s see who can balance on one foot longer.”
When movement is tied to connection and play, many kids will say yes. Your presence is often the medicine.
How Martial Arts Fits Into the Movement Medicine Picture
Martial arts is uniquely powerful because it combines so many forms of movement medicine in one place:
- Physical: Strength, flexibility, coordination, balance.
- Cognitive: Memorizing forms, listening to instructions, reacting quickly.
- Emotional: Managing frustration, fear, and the pressure of tests or sparring.
- Social: Respect, teamwork, leadership, and communication.
- Spiritual/Character: Discipline, perseverance, humility, and courage.
In a very real sense, every class your child attends is a dose of movement medicine for their whole being.
But like any medicine, the dosage matters.
- Too little and the benefits fade.
- Too much intensity with no recovery creates new problems.
- Just right—and supported by small everyday doses—and you get something beautiful:
A child who doesn’t just do martial arts, but lives in a body that feels alive, capable, and trustworthy.
As a parent, you are a crucial part of that equation.
Your choices—how often they move, how you respond to their energy, what you model in your own body—either reinforce or undermine the messages we give them in class.
When they hear:
- “Focus!”
- “Stand strong!”
- “Breathe!”
…and then see you:
- Taking small walks
- Stretching in the living room
- Taking a deep breath when you’re frustrated
They learn that movement and regulation are not just “dojo rules”; they are life skills.
A 7‑Day Movement Medicine Challenge for Warrior Families
To make this concrete, here is a simple 7‑day experiment you can try.
You don’t need to track steps or buy equipment.
Just choose one tiny action from each category below and do your best for one week.
1. Micro‑Movement (pick one)
- 10 jumping jacks or squats before homework.
- 1–2 minutes of “animal walks” (bear, crab, frog) between tasks.
- Balance on one leg while brushing teeth.
2. Practice Movement (you already have this)
- Commit to attending scheduled martial arts classes this week.
- If they’re not training this week, choose a 20–30 minute active playtime: Playground, backyard games, etc.
3. Restorative Movement (pick one)
- 5–10 minute family walk after dinner, even if it’s just around the block.
- 3–5 minutes of stretching on the floor together before bed.
- 5 slow deep breaths in a low, comfortable stance or seated position.
At the end of the week, ask:
- “Did you feel different on days we moved more?”
- “Was it easier or harder to fall asleep?”
- “How did your body feel in class?”
You might be surprised at how much shifts with such small, consistent changes.
Thought to Ponder
If movement is medicine, what “dose” is your child getting each day—
and how might their life change if that dose gently increased?
You don’t need to overhaul everything at once.
You don’t need the perfect routine.
You just need to begin seeing ordinary moments as opportunities:
- One extra walk.
- One short stretch.
- One playful balance game.
- One chance to breathe and move together.
In doing so, you are not merely raising a child who can kick higher or run faster.
You are helping grow a young warrior whose body, mind, and heart learn to move through this world with strength, ease, and resilience.
In the next part of this series, we’ll look deeper at joint longevity—how to protect your child’s knees, hips, spine, and shoulders so that the movement medicine they enjoy now continues to support them for many years to come.
If you’d like, I can also help you turn this article into a shorter “checklist” version for a companion post or download—something your Warrior Guardians can print and keep on the fridge as a daily reminder.
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